We are two years past discovery and my husband has been living in denial up until we started EMS Online. I continue with my own struggles, and I am not sure what else to do other than to continue to show up for him in empathy and compassion, much of that was lacking in my own part of recovery. I am trying not to compare how I am showing up differently for him in his struggles than how he showed up for me, and most days I can be who I want to be and others I want the validation. How do I help him and myself?