Q&A How Do I Know What Is Too Much Information? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: I have betrayed my husband with multiple affairs and other forms of acting out. I have been transparent and he knows all the information. But now, a year later, I still struggle with addictive thought patterns and urges. I feel like I’m being secretive when I dont tell him everything I’m struggling with but at the same time I am so tired of hurting him. I have started a 12-step program and am looking for a sponsor to help me with accountability. "Betrayal is the keeping of secrets" and I am worried that out of a desire for discretion I am continuing to stay stuck in the double life. We have both talked about this and he is asking the same question.Sections: Rick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: Handling DiscoveryQ&A Recovery LibraryRebuilding TrustRecovery FundamentalsRL_Media Type: Video