Good day Rick. My husband had an affair with the lady that works at our office. She was also pretending to be my friend. They even arranged our families to spend time with etc. We told her that he told me. She has shown no remorse or anything except being rude. I have to still see her every Monday. I don't believe he has told me everything. I so want to confront her when we are alone to hear what she might let out to get more of the story. I know you suggest we should never talk to the ap but I really need to know before I can move forward. My husband said he has told me everything but even last night I discovered on his itemized billing that he sent her sms. He said everything still work. Please give me advise How do I move forward?