Q&A How Do I Manage Family Introductions with the Child Born from an Affair?

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Question

Hello, my husband fathered a child with his ap. The child is 1.5 months old. MY sons are 3 and 6 years old. I hate that my husband wants to introduce that illegitimate child to my boys as soon as possible. But I can't stop things apparently. So how soon is it ok for them to meet? How do I answer questions about why he's their brother and not my son? I don't know how to act in front of my kids so they are affected as minimally as possible by the pathetic, weak, and disgusting actions done by their father.

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I would highly recommend giving this a try.
 
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