Q&A How Do I Move Past the Shock of This?

Submitted by Rick_Reynolds Thu, 11/14/2019 - 10:16

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I am having problems accepting the man that my husband has turned out to be. He lied, manipulated, and deceived me and our adult children for 18 months. He only stopped the affair after being caught. We have been married for 37 years and I never saw this part of him. I am in shock! I am struggling believing any of his words or feelings. How do I move past this?

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I would highly recommend giving this a try.
 
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