Q&A How Do I Move Past the Shock of This? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: I am having problems accepting the man that my husband has turned out to be. He lied, manipulated, and deceived me and our adult children for 18 months. He only stopped the affair after being caught. We have been married for 37 years and I never saw this part of him. I am in shock! I am struggling believing any of his words or feelings. How do I move past this?Sections: Rick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: Emotional RegulationFind HopeQ&A Recovery LibraryRecovery FundamentalsTrauma of InfidelityRL_Media Type: Video