Q&A How Do I Move past Something I Love Being Shared with the Affair Partner?

Submitted by Rick_Reynolds Fri, 06/16/2023 - 09:55

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When my husband and I decided to work on reconnecting and restoring our relationship, long hugs are what helped me feel like he really did love me and that we could make it through this challenge. Then, it was shared that he and his affair partner shared long hugs. Now, those long hugs are a gateway to intrusive thoughts instead of reconciliation. How do I move past that?

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I would highly recommend giving this a try.
 
-D, Texas