Q&A How Do I Replace What I Feel With What I Know, if I Don’t Know What the Truth Is?
To view this content please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.
To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.
Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.
Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.
Question
I discovered my wife's affair 15 months ago when the affair partner’s wife told me about it. We have completed EMS Weekend and the 6-week Beyond EMS course. I see my wife doing work, but the trickle-truth that I experienced still has me very suspicious. On D-day, my wife took care of her affair partner’s needs for a few hours (finding him a divorce lawyer) before coming to me to confess. I had asked her a few times in the past about suspected inappropriate relationships at work and I now know she looked me dead in the eyes and lied to me. How do I replace "what I feel" with "what I know", if I don't KNOW what is the truth.
What type of affair was it?
Our free Affair Analyzer provides you with insights about your unique situation and gives you a personalized plan of action.
Take the Affair Analyzer
What to read next
Free Surviving Infidelity Bootcamp
Our experts designed this step-by-step guide to help you survive infidelity. Be intentional with your healing with this free 7-day bootcamp.
I would highly recommend giving this a try.
