My husband and I finished EMSO and I find myself still stuck with intrusive thoughts and feelings that there’s more. I first found out of my husband’s infidelity last year by finding a video he recorded of him being sexually intimate with another woman. He swore that was it and I believed him..then I found more and repeat for 6 months straight. He never confessed to anything, only when caught. I lost count of the “D-Days”. The last one, 10 months ago, was different in that he took some time to write out other lies so “everything would finally be out”. They were small white lies…but still it was the first time he did something like this. I stopped obsessively looking as much after that…but still had this gut feeling that I don’t have all the information, especially details. I don’t know if it’s my true gut or just how I was programmed throughout this process. I’m finding myself once again obsessively searching on the internet for anything new and asking him tons of questions. He’s aware of my feelings and he’s about ready to start H4H. Do I follow my gut to keep looking or do I let it go and if so what do I tell myself to feel better about letting it go and that I’m not being naive? He lied so well to me for our whole marriage, how do I trust that I truly have all the information?