Q&A How Do I Show Empathy Towards My Wife after Her Revenge Affair When She Refuses to Give Full Disclosure? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: I need help and clarification. I am the initial unfaithful spouse and my betrayed spouse, in spite of my affair, had an affair of her own. I truly am sorry for my involvement in my affair and I want to help my spouse heal. The issue I'm having is lack of empathy towards her because she is not willing to give a full disclosure of her affair to me. I know I caused this ordeal, but I'm really having a hard time because I'm angry that I am having intrusive thoughts. Am I being selfish and self-centered? Am I making this all about me?Sections: Rick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: For The Hurt SpouseFor the Unfaithful SpouseHandling DiscoveryQ&A Recovery LibraryThe Role of EmpathyTypes of AffairsRL_Media Type: Video