We are in EMS Online and just talked about triggers. The very next day his actions hit on so many of mine that we got in a pretty bad fight. Trying to stay true to myself and filter facts from feelings. I don't feel it is good for him to be manipulated by his affair partner because of his daughter. He does not see it that way. He sees himself as a providing father. I believe that I don't have all the facts and I am not sure I ever will. It is such a touchy issue. I am feeling lost. What I know to be true: Yesterday we fought, he left with my parents' vehicle and was not home the next morning. I was told he was headed out of state to see the affair partner with diapers for their daughter, he went to a support group and went to work.