Q&A How do we Overcome these Barriers to Intimacy?

Submitted by Rick_Reynolds Wed, 11/30/2016 - 10:50

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Question: 

We are on week 12 of EMSO and talking about barriers to reconnecting. I have 2.

  1. He continues to lie about other things in his life.
  2. He seems to be having E.D. now that he has been exposed.

Honestly I welcome the intimacy. I'm hurt he doesn't seem to want to. He seems to have a good excuse, but it does wound me. I'm actually having a hard time answering a lot of the questions because it doesn't fit us.

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I would highly recommend giving this a try.
 
-D, Texas