Q&A How Do You Define Healing for the Betrayed Spouse? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: I can envision forgiveness and just moving on, but I can’t imagine a day that I will not feel completely crushed and heartbroken by my husband’s choices. What does “healed” look like from your personal and professional experience? Is there ever truly a future with no sadness or do I just have to get used to it? Is it just a feeling of resignation? I am 16 months from disclosure, have done EMS Weekend and Harboring Hope, and my husband has done significant work to heal. He takes full responsibility and is very comforting and supportive to me in my pain. He is doing everything possible and I could not ask for more from him. He is the husband I have always wanted but I can’t enjoy it. I still cry every single day, have trouble focusing on anything else, am unproductive at work etc. I have received counseling from infidelity experts, am on medication, and will start EMDR soon. I want hope that there is an end to this. Is there actual healing? Or am I just supposed to not think about it and get used to a chronic underlying sadness? I realize I am depressed, and my perspective is probably not healthy, but similar questions usually describe things “getting better” as opposed to resolving completely, which makes me fear the future.Sections: Rick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: Find HopeFor The Hurt SpouseQ&A Recovery LibraryRL_Media Type: Video