Discovery was eleven months ago and the affair was 25 years ago. I spend the last ten years flirting and lying about it. I have been in retail sales in a small town for 35 years. My wife demands I shun any woman who says hello to me that I did business with that she doesn't know. If the woman is attractive she has me put my hand up like they are annoying me. We are faith filled people. Is this behavior expected after an affair?