My infidelity occurred at work. My wife is adamant that I leave my job, change careers, and move to a different city. I have changed shifts, work areas, and supervisors to help ease my wife’s fears. I am now working a Mon-Fri schedule 830-430. My wife is extremely angry and hurt that I have not left even though I have tried very hard to find another career, even put in many applications with no hits. It seems our healing has been blocked because of this. What do I do?