It's been eighteen months since d day. We've gone through EMS online, EMS weekend, harboring hope & counselling. He's attending Celebrate Recovery at our church & goes to AA. My question is why is he still not willing to answer the smallest of my questions? It doesn't matter if I ask anything that has to with the affair. He won't tell me. I feel that it's effecting my recovery because I can't trust him because he doesn't want to be transparent and I can't fully give my heart to him. After all I've been through to see him still put his needs first really hurts. I don't know what to do. He won't budge on this.