We have been together for 8 years three of those years I was having multiple affairs. D-Day was three years ago. We are finally taking steps in the right direction with taking the EMS Online course. We are seeing a couples therapist and have been doing this by ourselves for far to long. I disconnected from him so many years ago. I see hope with this course and that we are truly being open and honest with each other now. Will I feel connected as I once did to him again?