Q&A What Is the Census of Disclosing the Affair to the Affair Partner's Spouse? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: I am betrayed and struggling with this topic. One side of me wants to call her and give her everything that I know. I have a hard time knowing that this affair partner has gotten away with a devastating act that has destroyed my life and family, while he goes on living his normal life. I feel he needs consequences for his choices and she needs the truth. On the other hand, I would feel terrible knowing that the info I give to her will be life changing and causing nothing but destruction. I have a hard time thinking I'll be causing someone else the same amount of pain that I went through-and her 3 kids. Please help me with this.Sections: Rick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: For The Hurt SpouseHandling DiscoveryQ&A Recovery LibraryRL_Media Type: Video