Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Answers to 'Why'?

Submitted by Rick_Reynolds Wed, 11/01/2017 - 12:38

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My husband and I have been having a conversation about ultimately understanding WHY he chose this double life for so long. He doesn't think there will ever be an answer that will satisfy me. Is this an unrealistic expectation on my part? I knew that it might take time and therapy for him to understand , but I thought that understanding would eventually come. Thoughts?

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