It has been almost 3 months since the first disclosure, and 2 weeks since the last. I am at a loss of how to deal with a bitter mother-in-law. It seems that at every turn she is saying something against me as if I caused my wife to have the affairs. I believe she is enabling my wife's victim mentality, and is hurting the recovery process. My wife's mom is her closest confidant. I feel like I'm fighting a war on 2 fronts. I could use some reinforcements.