Q&A What Else Can I Do, Other Than Be Honest and Give Her Space?

Submitted by Rick_Reynolds Tue, 04/13/2021 - 10:36

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We are in Week 1 of EMS Online. My wife is having a really hard time committing to this. I’m the betrayer. She has wanted this forever and we’re finally doing it, but I find it’s just getting worse. She gets a bad thought and then she completely lets it take her. Even when I leave her alone she still explodes. She has no filter. It gets bad. Not physical, but very verbal. What else can I do, other than be honest and give her space?

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I would highly recommend giving this a try.
 
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