Q&A What Is the Best Way to Discuss the Questions That Most Wayward Spouses Get from the Betrayed?

Submitted by Rick_Reynolds 3 years ago

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My spouse often says, "You wouldn't have stopped if you weren't caught", or asks, "Would you have stopped if I didn't catch you?". It feels like there is no good response to this. Is it possible for for the betrayed spouse to get past this? How do I honestly respond to these statements?

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