Q&A What is it that I'm Sacrificing as the Unfaithful Spouse?
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Question
Hi Rick. I am an unfaithful wife. We are about six months out from D-day and we are doing relatively well thanks to EMSO and my husband’s heart. However, he is the one that is sacrificing so much when I'm the one that caused the pain. He has to sacrifice way more than me as far as his triggers, living where we live, not telling everyone about the affair but a few people, etc. He has asked me more than once what is it that I am sacrificing compared to him? It does seem he has to sacrifice more than me to want to forgive, etc. but what am I sacrificing? I'm trying to do so much work on fixing me and what I can do to repair our marriage, etc. and he totally agrees with me on that. What do the unfaithful sacrifice?
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