Is a Marriage Retreat Worth It? Interview with a Pioneer in the Field An engineer friend of mine once told me “You can only have two of the three.” We were discussing three critical decisions which drive any process. They are speed, price, and quality. You can have quality and speed, but it’s probably going to cost you more. You could also choose quality and price, but you’ll end up sacrificing the speed of the desired need. Finally, speed and price could be what you want, but you’ll then probably end up compromising quality and being disappointed about the time and hard earned money you spent. The options available to couples recovering from infidelity seem to be many yet choices have to be made regarding speed, quality and of course, price. It’s unfortunate that when recovering from one of life’s greatest tragedies, one has to talk about money but there’s just no way around it. Effective, long term healing from infidelity requires an investment of time, effort and hard earned finances. Perhaps one of the least understood options of recovery are marital intensives or marriage retreats. Since they are one of the most costly options, one must eventually ask, do the speed and quality provided make it worth it in the long run? I can’t stress enough the importance of choosing a weekend retreat that is specifically designed for infidelity, and not just for general marriage issues. Recovery from infidelity requires a very specialized process that directly addresses the many aspects of infidelity and it’s far reaching collateral damage. At affairrecovery.com my staff and I firmly believe in intensives, yet also subscribe to the fact that participants also need a rigorous aftercare program to support them once they leave the intensive. You’ll be happy to know our aftercare programs are exceptional. This week I’m posting an interview with Dr. Shawn Stoever, the Senior Director for the WinShape Foundation (a non-profit ministry of Chick-fil-a) who oversees their Marriage Retreats and Leadership programs. Dr. Stoever has spent the majority of his professional career helping develop marriage intensives and is one of the leading experts in the field. Listening to this interview will provide additional avenues for your recovery process. Shawn not only explains the benefits of an intensive and a marriage retreat, but he makes some recommendations on finding a specific program that could be helpful for you and your spouse. You can find our EMS Weekend here: marriage retreat at Affair Recovery. We’ve also found that many of our readers and subscribers have found great solace and encouragement through our survivors blog. Both Lynn and Samuel have dedicated great time and effort to share their ongoing survival stories and we’ve included two of their newest vlogs for you: In the vlog below, Lynn shares both her healthy and unhealthy reasons for staying and how they saw her through to the other side. Add a Comment In Samuel’s vlog below he discusses the seemingly never ending challenges to recovery for both spouses. Add a Comment Sections: NewsletterFounder's LaptopFree ResourcesHot Off the PressDescriptions: in personRL_Category: Recovery FundamentalsRL_Media Type: TextVideo