Q&A How Can I Calm the Hauntings?

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My D Day was 8 months ago. We are in reconciliation process but I am having real problems when it comes to sexual intimacy. I keep seeing him with all the others. I feel a need to compete. I feel intimacy is gone and that now I'm just another, though he does show remorse and is acting like he loves me. I can't compete with 25yr olds. I feel like I just met him and am trying to decide if I should still date him. Even after 12 years of marriage. I care for him...

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