First I would like to say how much I appreciate the videos that we have access to!! I was the unfaithful and am currently doing H4H. By happy coincidence our lesson this week, 'the physical reality', is also on this topic. One of the comments that really stood out to me from Rick's lesson video was about the relational attachment development (or lack of) as very young children. Evidently this may be connected to our ability to process when the fight, flight or freeze triggers. This got me thinking in a new way about a very traumatic event that occurred in my family when my brother and I were ages 6 months and 2 years old. We are now 54 and 56 and have both struggled with similar relational issues of infidelity and independence. I'm curious if our relational attachment development could have been affected and be one of the contributory factors in the why of some of our past responses/poor choices in relationships. My sister is 7 years younger and that event was long past by the time she was born and she has (at least to this point in her life) not dealt with these particular issues. I'm interested in learning more about this. Hope this makes sense.
First I would like to say how
First I would like to say how much I appreciate the videos that we have access to!! I was the unfaithful and am currently doing H4H. By happy coincidence our lesson this week, 'the physical reality', is also on this topic. One of the comments that really stood out to me from Rick's lesson video was about the relational attachment development (or lack of) as very young children. Evidently this may be connected to our ability to process when the fight, flight or freeze triggers. This got me thinking in a new way about a very traumatic event that occurred in my family when my brother and I were ages 6 months and 2 years old. We are now 54 and 56 and have both struggled with similar relational issues of infidelity and independence. I'm curious if our relational attachment development could have been affected and be one of the contributory factors in the why of some of our past responses/poor choices in relationships. My sister is 7 years younger and that event was long past by the time she was born and she has (at least to this point in her life) not dealt with these particular issues. I'm interested in learning more about this. Hope this makes sense.