Starting over with your soulmate

We both were in so much pain. He was married 34 years with 4 young adult children and I was on my three marriage with 3 college kids a dog and a cat together since 1989 divorced 2013 remarried 2014 legally separated 2016 just found him and got divorced. Cheating and victim of domestic abuse financial abuse and rape. We both go to a 12 step program 3 times a week. We were always checking up on each other. Talking forever on the phone. Going to meetings dinner and it made all the difference not dealing with cheaters and abusers alone. My car broke down my x stole it to buy heroine and I needed groceries. Then he needed help after having surgery. We took are time, 1 year is recommended. And now we are soulmates never stop believing in true love Luke&Jeanne