Understand completely that the topic is forgiveness but forgiving an accident (even as terrible as this) is not the same thing as forgiving infidelity (mirroring Wolf's comment). It almost felt insulting to me to read this article. To maybe put this as a better comparison as I have tried to explain this pain to people, it would be like if your spouse saw you in the middle of the road, ran you over, lied to you about running you over, and then kept running you over. Oh, yeah, and then you and almost everyone in your circle finding out about it and thinking your spouse's running you over was your all fault and then you question everything about your world and humanity in general. The difference is intention and lying -- it's not even really the actions.
Accidents are not Infidelity
Understand completely that the topic is forgiveness but forgiving an accident (even as terrible as this) is not the same thing as forgiving infidelity (mirroring Wolf's comment). It almost felt insulting to me to read this article. To maybe put this as a better comparison as I have tried to explain this pain to people, it would be like if your spouse saw you in the middle of the road, ran you over, lied to you about running you over, and then kept running you over. Oh, yeah, and then you and almost everyone in your circle finding out about it and thinking your spouse's running you over was your all fault and then you question everything about your world and humanity in general. The difference is intention and lying -- it's not even really the actions.