this is a common scenario my friend, especially with betrayed males. i'm so sorry for the pain you're in. how long ago was disclosure? fact is, hey may have ptsd. he may be shaming you out of anger and resentment and he's not sure how to process all the pain he's in. there are a few scenarios, but i think you have to decide how long you can take this? i know it's awful....however, remember he's in pain and feeling trauma. perhaps a separation may need to take place if he refuses to work on the anger and shaming and if he refuses expert help? what sort of help are you all getting?
i'm sorry.....
this is a common scenario my friend, especially with betrayed males. i'm so sorry for the pain you're in. how long ago was disclosure? fact is, hey may have ptsd. he may be shaming you out of anger and resentment and he's not sure how to process all the pain he's in. there are a few scenarios, but i think you have to decide how long you can take this? i know it's awful....however, remember he's in pain and feeling trauma. perhaps a separation may need to take place if he refuses to work on the anger and shaming and if he refuses expert help? what sort of help are you all getting?