Wow my husband could be the poster child for what not to do,I guess, except for the bad advice. He would never ask for any advice as he knows best about everything. He says he tries to be "perfect" but that I am unsatisfiable so he just quit trying. I am not sure what he was trying to be perfect at. Marriage counselors are all idiots and books and other programs are way too touchy feely according to him. We muddle along not talking about anything except his job mostly, I am very sorry to have made such a poor choice in life. Trying to learn how to be kind and "loving" to someone who can't love anyone is a very hard road indeed.
Missed only the one about bad advice
Wow my husband could be the poster child for what not to do,I guess, except for the bad advice. He would never ask for any advice as he knows best about everything. He says he tries to be "perfect" but that I am unsatisfiable so he just quit trying. I am not sure what he was trying to be perfect at. Marriage counselors are all idiots and books and other programs are way too touchy feely according to him. We muddle along not talking about anything except his job mostly, I am very sorry to have made such a poor choice in life. Trying to learn how to be kind and "loving" to someone who can't love anyone is a very hard road indeed.