I would say that 99% of the vids/articles on this site address the betrayed side of the affair with nary a mention of how the betrayer might be feeling. This site is supposed to be a source of helpful material for both sides, but it leans heavily towards the effects on the betrayed, justifiably so. No matter how much the betrayed is hurting, if we take the stance that the unfaithful’s feeling are to be suppressed or irrelevant then there can be no true healing in a relationship. The goal here is not to make the betrayed feel better, but to provide insight into healing both sides AND hopefully, the relationship between them.
Site is for both sides of the equation
I would say that 99% of the vids/articles on this site address the betrayed side of the affair with nary a mention of how the betrayer might be feeling. This site is supposed to be a source of helpful material for both sides, but it leans heavily towards the effects on the betrayed, justifiably so. No matter how much the betrayed is hurting, if we take the stance that the unfaithful’s feeling are to be suppressed or irrelevant then there can be no true healing in a relationship. The goal here is not to make the betrayed feel better, but to provide insight into healing both sides AND hopefully, the relationship between them.