I agree and find the articles so comforting. My husband said the biggest relief was the day I discovered his affair. We continue to take two steps forward and one backward. I promised myself on day 1 that I would not make a fast decision. After 18 months, I am still unsure but at least I have come to believe that my husband's internal flaws are his and his alone. I no longer blame myself.
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I agree and find the articles so comforting. My husband said the biggest relief was the day I discovered his affair. We continue to take two steps forward and one backward. I promised myself on day 1 that I would not make a fast decision. After 18 months, I am still unsure but at least I have come to believe that my husband's internal flaws are his and his alone. I no longer blame myself.