We're three plus months past our horrific Dday and working hard on rebuilding not only our marriage but ourselves. My husband has done more work on himself these past months than I thought possible. He really wants to make amends. He believes I've forgiven him because I let him come back home. But really, what is forgiveness? My pain is still deep, my emotional flooding daily. We started the boot camp and it is helping but it has made us both realize we need someone to talk to who has been where we are. Have I really forgiven him? He never asked...just said he was sorry. Do I need him to ask before I feel I've forgiven him? Really...what is forgiveness.
What is Forgiveness?
We're three plus months past our horrific Dday and working hard on rebuilding not only our marriage but ourselves. My husband has done more work on himself these past months than I thought possible. He really wants to make amends. He believes I've forgiven him because I let him come back home. But really, what is forgiveness? My pain is still deep, my emotional flooding daily. We started the boot camp and it is helping but it has made us both realize we need someone to talk to who has been where we are. Have I really forgiven him? He never asked...just said he was sorry. Do I need him to ask before I feel I've forgiven him? Really...what is forgiveness.