I discovered my husband having an affair in Oct 2017. He said he was going to break off contact so that we can focus on counselling together. I discovered he had and always was with the affair partner and had no plans to break off the affair. The many lies and deceit and blame placed on me since my discovery made me realise that the problem doesn't lay with me. I have filed for divorce, my husband and the affair partner now lives together and continue the affair within the same town a few minutes away from me and my kids so he can see them as agreed regularly. I realise this battle is within him and my position is to heal myself and take care of my boys after this brutal betrayal. This is not the end of my life, just the end of my marriage and beginning of a new life where my purpose is and always will be placed in God.
Moving On
I discovered my husband having an affair in Oct 2017. He said he was going to break off contact so that we can focus on counselling together. I discovered he had and always was with the affair partner and had no plans to break off the affair. The many lies and deceit and blame placed on me since my discovery made me realise that the problem doesn't lay with me. I have filed for divorce, my husband and the affair partner now lives together and continue the affair within the same town a few minutes away from me and my kids so he can see them as agreed regularly. I realise this battle is within him and my position is to heal myself and take care of my boys after this brutal betrayal. This is not the end of my life, just the end of my marriage and beginning of a new life where my purpose is and always will be placed in God.