Wayne says, in step 3, don't talk about intent, justification, childhood issues, or the advances of others. Does he mean solely in terms of addressing being forgivable - or does he mean never talk about them? I. an unfaithful, "hit" on all of these and after years of avoiding addressing all of them have found it helpful to confront and examine and discuss with my betrayed. We are years past D day 1 and a few months past D day 2. All events were years ago but I with held till recently the other events. Insight, anyone?
Being forgiveable
Wayne says, in step 3, don't talk about intent, justification, childhood issues, or the advances of others. Does he mean solely in terms of addressing being forgivable - or does he mean never talk about them? I. an unfaithful, "hit" on all of these and after years of avoiding addressing all of them have found it helpful to confront and examine and discuss with my betrayed. We are years past D day 1 and a few months past D day 2. All events were years ago but I with held till recently the other events. Insight, anyone?