DREAL-
I have to agree that there are comparisons...but not always that the AP sex is better!
My situation is not typical in the sense my husband told me his AP was a real dud in that department. And he was coming over cheating with me after he left to be with her! It only lasted a few months and he was home. We're working through all the emotional fall out now.
Depends on the affair type I think. My spouse had an emotional affair (prior to his physical affair) with the widow of an instructor. She was also his instructor. She developed feelings for him and he was feeling distant from me. He felt responsible for her- a now single mother from a foreign country. To say the least my spouse was very lost to himself at that time and hurt me terribly. He dumped her and broke her heart.
I do agree there are comparisons. There has to be. How do people make the choices they do without them?
sex better with AP?
DREAL-
I have to agree that there are comparisons...but not always that the AP sex is better!
My situation is not typical in the sense my husband told me his AP was a real dud in that department. And he was coming over cheating with me after he left to be with her! It only lasted a few months and he was home. We're working through all the emotional fall out now.
Depends on the affair type I think. My spouse had an emotional affair (prior to his physical affair) with the widow of an instructor. She was also his instructor. She developed feelings for him and he was feeling distant from me. He felt responsible for her- a now single mother from a foreign country. To say the least my spouse was very lost to himself at that time and hurt me terribly. He dumped her and broke her heart.
I do agree there are comparisons. There has to be. How do people make the choices they do without them?