Please rethink posting about

Please rethink posting about sex after infidelity when both the betrayed spouse and betrayer are together in the article. I am a betrayed spouse and I found this article very triggering. I don’t want to think about my husband’s AP at all, let alone having the thought of her sexual issues and why she came onto my husband come into my head when I’m trying to heal sexually with my husband. I would have loved the insight and teachings of this article had it been solely geared toward a betrayed woman, but instead I am now triggered.