My wife has been unfaithful more than once. The first occurrence was a physical affair two years ago, which I just found out about through sexting on a messaging app. The second affair was emotionally through Facebook. The first D-Day was 5 months ago. We’ve been in couples counseling for 8 months, which she pushed, but did not reveal her activities on her own. She has since moved out. I have filed for divorce because I didn’t know what else to do, but told her that I’d like to give it 90 days to cool off before the final decision. She doesn’t seem to be overly interested in our marriage, saying she doesn’t see how we can be fixed. I’m just trying to find out if I’m crazy for even trying. She has been the love of my life, but we definitely drifted apart over the last 3 years. Thank you for all you do.