All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How to Survive Infidelity The Power of Small Groups Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? The Problem with Forgiveness Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 5047 Resources Type Title Posted Sharing with Others 12/10/2025 Can this Marriage be Saved? 12/10/2025 Betrayal Trauma 12/10/2025 The Affair Recovery Podcast 12/10/2025 Q&A How Do I Move Forward When The Wayward Is Not Yet Able to Show Up in the Way The Healing Process Requires? 12/09/2025 Q&A What Online Therapy Recommendations Do You Have for People Outside of the United States? 12/09/2025 Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Rejected When I Sense That Some of My Husband’s Affection is Something He’s Offering Only to Support Me, Rather Than Something He Genuinely Feels? 12/09/2025 Q&A How Do I Continue if This is His Mindset? Part 2. 12/09/2025 Q&A How Do I Resolve the Conflict Between My Betrayed Husband and My Parents? 12/09/2025 Affair Recovery Steps: How to Live Without Fear After Infidelity 11/25/2025 Q&A How Do I Continue if This is His Mindset? 11/12/2025 Matt Monteverde's Alumni Story 11/12/2025 Q&A Am I Crazy to Think This Could Ever Work Again or Is This a Narcissistic Cycle? 11/05/2025 Q&A Why Does It Seem That the Unfaithful Are More ‘Broken’ than the Betrayed After Everything That They Have Done to Us? 11/05/2025 Q&A Am I Crazy for Trying to Trust My Spouse? 11/05/2025 Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 10/29/2025 Q&A How Do I Get These Images Out of My Head? 10/22/2025 Q&A How Do We Handle a Vindictive Affair Partner? 10/22/2025 Q&A How Can the Wayward Stay Safe around the Betrayed’s Pain? 10/22/2025 Q&A Can You Provide Some Words of Encouragement? 10/22/2025 Q&A How Do We Handle Intense Intrusive Thoughts When Working High-Demand Jobs? 10/22/2025 Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding 10/22/2025 Six Types of Affairs: Emotional Affair 10/15/2025 Overcoming Anxiety Caused by an Affair 10/08/2025 Q&A How Do I Heal from the Grief and Sadness? 10/02/2025 Q&A How Can I Move Towards Vulnerability with Someone Capable of This? 10/02/2025 Q&A What Can I Do to Help Myself, and Us, At the One Year Mark? 10/02/2025 Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed Partner to Feel Rage? 10/02/2025 Q&A What Exactly Do I Grieve and Do I Have to Grieve Before I Can Forgive? 10/02/2025 Q&A Why Would Someone Put Such a Cherished Relationship at Risk with an Affair? 10/02/2025 Q&A Have Men Been Able to Forgive and Have a Healthy Relationship After Extreme Infidelity? 10/02/2025 Q&A How Could He So Easily Forget the Pain He Caused? 10/02/2025 Q&A What Advice Would You Give to a Couple Who Feels Safe Now and for the Future, but Is Struggling with ‘Getting Right’ with past Infidelities and Traumas? 10/02/2025 Q&A Is There Anything the Wayward Spouse Can Say or Do That Has Been Effective in Helping the Betrayed Spouse Feel Better? 10/02/2025 Overcoming the Barriers to Recommitment 10/01/2025 How Do You Deal With Anger After Infidelity? 9/24/2025 Surviving Infidelity: Three Types of Reconciliation 9/17/2025 Q&A How Do I Move Forward from Here? 9/10/2025 Q&A Why Should I Continue in This Relationship? 9/10/2025 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 9/03/2025 Q&A How Will I Ever Feel Safe with Someone Who Has No Control over Themselves? 8/28/2025 Q&A Does the Wayward Spouse Need Time to Mourn the Loss of the Affair Partner? 8/28/2025 Q&A How Do I Heal from What Happened? 8/28/2025 Q&A Could You Provide Suggestion on How to Predict & Repair Intrusive Thoughts When We Are Engaging in Sex? 8/28/2025 Are Silence, Avoidance and Frustration Killing Your Recovery? 8/27/2025 Q&A What Makes Someone Vulnerable to a Previous Romantic Partner? 8/21/2025 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 8/20/2025 Embracing Intimacy After Infidelity Part 1: How to Reengage 8/13/2025 Q&A How Do We Address and Heal from My Husband’s past Betrayal in Light of My Recent Infidelity? 8/06/2025 Q&A How Can I Prove to My Betrayed Spouse That I Finally ‘Get It’? 8/06/2025 Pages123456789…next ›last »
