All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How to Survive Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Power of Small Groups Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 4912 Resources Type Title Posted Stop Faking It: A Woman’s View on Sex After Infidelity 11/20/2024 Mistakes Families Make After an Affair 11/13/2024 Q&A How Do I Respond If I Don’t Believe My Spouse? 11/12/2024 Q&A Is My Spouse Trying to Punish Me for What I’ve Done? 11/12/2024 Was the Sex So Much Better in Their Affair? 11/06/2024 Q&A How Do I Handle My Issue With Disassociation? 11/05/2024 Q&A How Do We Navigate Outside Advice and Establish Boundaries to Protect Our Relationship? 10/30/2024 Q&A Could My Husband’s Actions Be Early Signs of Relapse? 10/30/2024 Q&A How Do I Support My Partner and Accept That I Can’t Control Their Recovery Journey? 10/30/2024 How Do We Silence Shame? 10/30/2024 Should I Get a Divorce? Am I Being Naive? 10/23/2024 Q&A How Do I Help My Unfaithful Husband as He Seems to Be So Buried in Shame, Self-Loathing, and a Huge Sense of Worthlessness? 10/22/2024 Q&A How Do I Know if It Is Time to Let the Relationship Go? 10/22/2024 Q&A How Do I Come to Terms With My New Reality as a Betrayed Spouse? 10/22/2024 Common Justifications for Why Women Cheat 10/16/2024 Q&A My Betrayed Partner Says They’re Only in EMS Online So They Can Say ‘They Tried’. What Do I Do? 10/09/2024 Q&A How Do I Heal From the Shame I’m Feeling as a Result of My Affair? 10/09/2024 Are They Thinking About the Other Person? 10/09/2024 Is My Spouse a Narcissist? 10/02/2024 Q&A Is It Normal for Family to Feel Disappointed at Us for Staying With the Wayward Spouse? 10/01/2024 Q&A Why Does My Husband (Wayward) Not Want to Reconnect With Me (Betrayed) Physically? 10/01/2024 Q&A Am I a Fool for Being Vulnerable With My Mate? 10/01/2024 How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate 9/25/2024 Q&A How Do I Get the Lying and the Porn Use by My Husband to Stop? 9/18/2024 Q&A How Do I Feel Special Again After I Have Lost So Much Including Places That Were Just Ours? 9/18/2024 Q&A Did My Wife Need to Justify Her Behavior in Cheating on Me? 9/18/2024 Q&A How Do I Replace What I Feel With What I Know, if I Don’t Know What the Truth Is? 9/18/2024 Q&A How Do I Shut Down the Intrusive Thoughts of My Husband With the Affair Partners That Have Become Erotic to Me? 9/18/2024 Q&A What Else Can I Do to Help Facilitate the Healing Process for My Betrayed Spouse and Myself? 9/18/2024 Q&A How Can I Get These Images Out of My Mind and Get back to Just Being With My Husband? 9/18/2024 Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Get back the Dignity and Self-Worth I Took From Her With My Betrayal? 9/18/2024 A Discussion on Anger, Boundaries and Regrets After Infidelity 9/18/2024 Factors Affecting Women’s Sexuality with Laurie Bryson, M.A. & LPC 9/11/2024 What are the 5 simple and proven steps that will protect your marriage? 9/04/2024 Reclaiming Dignity and Worth as a Woman with Laurie Bryson, M.A. & LPC 8/28/2024 How to Find Answers 8/21/2024 Q&A Are We at the End of the Road? 8/20/2024 Q&A How Do I Get Past or Heal From the Hurtful Things My Husband Said About Me to His Affair Partners? 8/20/2024 Q&A Would Viewing Surveillance Footage of My Husband’s Affair Be Helpful? 8/14/2024 Rekindling Desire After An Affair 8/14/2024 The Process of Healing from Infidelity 8/07/2024 Q&A Do We Tell My Wife Parents About Her Behavior in Their House? 8/06/2024 Q&A How Do I Get over Feeling Disgust With My Partner Over Who He Chose to Have an Affair With? 8/06/2024 Q&A How Do I Truly Know if My Wayward Spouse Has Changed? 8/06/2024 Q&A What Do I Do When My Wayward Spouse Refuses to Meet My Emotional Needs? 8/06/2024 Q&A How Can I Better Understand the Behaviors of My Wayward Spouse? 7/31/2024 Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to Understand That Abuse Towards Men Is Equal to Abuse Towards Women? 7/31/2024 Q&A How Can I Help My Wayward Spouse Heal From Betrayal Trauma From a Prior Relationship? 7/31/2024 Is There Hope After Infidelity? 7/31/2024 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Polygraphs, Anxiety Induced False Positives, and Full Disclosure During Recovery? 7/26/2024 Pages123456789…next ›last »