Q&A Am I Hurting Us More by Not Letting Him Live at Home?

Submitted by Leslie_Hardie Wed, 06/16/2021 - 13:29

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Question: 

It has been 7 weeks since discovery. My husband had a 3 year affair. I asked him to leave when I found out. I love him but I’m so angry and I’m in so much pain. I don’t want to see him. At this point I’m not sure I can stay with someone who has cared about another woman and treated me badly during his affair. Am I hurting us more by not letting him live at home? He is remorseful and says he loves me but I’m not sure he does.

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