We are 2½ years from the first disclosure. There have been three significant disclosures since. My wife is currently in Hope for Healing and I am in Harboring Hope. We completed EMS Online in June during which disclosure #3 happened and a week after the course disclosure #4 happened. We have tried 4 different counselors and talked with several more soon realizing that they do not have infidelity experience. We have asked 3 of the largest evangelical churches in our area, and 3 different ministries who specialize in infidelity but no success in anyone contacting us to actually help us. We have gained lots of helpful information from Affair Recovery, but after so many lies and disclosures, we have become stuck being able to get to Ground Zero. We have listened to many Affair Recovery library videos on this subject. We are open to these but have no counsellor to help us. We need some live person to help us with some of the unique struggles we have in this situation. Could you please help?