How do I encourage reconciliation, healing, positive communication and restoration when my spouse moved many states away a month ago without sharing the address. He is not repentant or ending the affair. D-Day was August 2016 and almost all of our communication is text, some email, and one 8 min conversation he initiated over financial responsibilities and all of which are stressful. All the communication with the affair partner is ego building with no stress and responsibilities only the possibilities and what ifs. Hours each day are spent communicating with the affair partner.
Married 40 yrs 6. Kids and 11 grandkids later.