Q&A How Can I Encourage Behavior without Bitterness?

Submitted by Leslie_Hardie Tue, 11/05/2019 - 10:00

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I want my spouse to plan special or memorable events on specific dates to help build new memories. My issue is it has no value if I have to tell him to do this. How can I encourage this behavior while not letting my ego cry out that he had to be told to do it?

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I would highly recommend giving this a try.
 
-D, Texas