Q&A How Can I Let Go of the Hurt from What My Spouse Shared with the Affair Partner?
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Question
How does one get over the hurt or jealousy of what the affair partner shared with your husband? The connection and relationship that they had plagues me. His was an emotional affair but clearly he had feelings for her which overrode his loyalty to me. I just can’t help but think that he chose her over me...over us.
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