Q&A How Am I Supposed to Change My Perspective of My Mate?

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Question

My unfaithful husband has had many sexual affairs, emotional affairs, had sex with prostitutes, sex in our home, and had 100's of online affairs. His therapist has said he is not a sex addict. I have had several D-Days since 2015. I am only staying married to him because of our children. I have no love, respect or compassion for him. How can he look at me and tell me loves me? How can he say he ever loved me? How am I supposed to look at him and see someone other than an abusive, lying, cheating person?

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I would highly recommend giving this a try.
 
-D, Texas