I used to think my wife was the most beautiful women out there! I felt she had a great passion for God, I knew she struggled with depression and seeing the good in what she has but I never thought she would be unfaithful. Is it normal for me even a year after her affair that I have to work at being attracted to her because of what she did, how she treated (my wife’s) body and how she treated our family? Needless to say my view of her needs help she’s still physically beautiful but it comes with a lump in my throat like craving a glass a milk buy you open it up and it’s sour.