Q&A How Do I Discuss the Affair with My Mate?

Submitted by Leslie_Hardie Thu, 10/05/2017 - 09:35

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How do I use the "I feel" vs. "You" phrase to discuss the affairs with my husband? I find it difficult to NOT say "you", as in "I feel abandoned when..?"

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I would highly recommend giving this a try.
 
-D, Texas