Q&A How do I Let go of my Desire to See Him Suffer and Broken?

Submitted by Leslie_Hardie 8 years ago

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In the process of forgiveness, how do I let go of my desire to continue to make my mate suffer for what he has done to me and to our marriage? He is repentant, but it's like I need to continue to see his brokenness.

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