Q&A Is it Safe to Stay?
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Question
My husband had a 4 year affair. The affair produced a baby. I am doing Harboring Hope, but he is not doing anything. He says he wants us to get through this, but I'm unsure to trust him with my feelings again, especially when I see the same mannerisms from him. It seems like he is just waiting for me to get over my depression to resume life again. I am struggling on whether to stay or whether to go.
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