We have adult children that are in such different places with the infidelity. Most of them are out of the state and one is out of the country. Two of them have asked when I will come and visit them by myself. I don't feel good about leaving my unfaithful spouse at this time. We are working hard together on our marriage and I am trying to trust again but it is hard especially when everything that happened was in the area around our home. I don't want to leave him now. We are closer than we have been in a long time, but the one daughter thinks I have lost my life and how long do I have to keep my husband on a leash. Many have told us that we come first, but we were very close and I know she misses me very much.