Q&A Any Advice to Help With the Flooding?
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Question
Rick I could use your help. I am the unfaithful and a sex addict. I have revealed all my sexual affairs and acting out that I remember. More has been reveled since d day and my wife is not satisfied with the disclosures I have given her. I try to answer questions, but some I am unable to yet. We have this pattern of getting along great, lots of loving each other, great communication, love making; then we get too tired and she will get a trigger and start flooding out of control. Everything I disclosed is then thrown in my face with lots of threats towards me. I know I deserve this but I can't defuse the flooding for days and it's impossible to talk during this time. It's been 2 1/2 yrs since d day and I have made every mistake in recovery you can make, but haven't lost hope any help would be great thank you
What type of affair was it?
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